Today while in the joggers park, just overheard 3 stupid males walking besides me. Need not be intimidated I have a reason why I called them stupid. Usually am not the one who over hears some conversation of passerby or even the next person. I am instead totally against it. I usually, if am alone – take assistance of my earphones and ignore such people around me. But today while I was choosing the next song to play by chance overheard them.
They were into praising a girl who I perceive according to the overheard conversation possibly is a Model by profession. She’s beautiful – one man said. She stayed at the same apartment as one of those guys. She also was coming to the same joggers park to exercise. The same guy commented, “After exercising, before going to apartment she will smoke and she will leave for her workplace wearing a Saree one day and the other day a Mini. She’s a model, they have such culture at their workplace.”
Okay now I understand from this small overheard conversation that still in 21st century there are chauvinistic male, who first satisfy there eyes by staring at a girl then with the help of their stinking mouth utter words which are basically a chemical deformity of their brain. Firstly you cannot moralize anyone as ‘Right’ or ‘Wrong’. Second you cannot discriminate the work they pursue and the way of life they adopt.
I am into belief that you are free to think, perform, talk and do whatever you want. But yes, by not under-rating or criticizing some other person. If she smokes – let her, if she dances – let her, if she bangs a girl-let her. What’s your problem, Dude?
To answer some of your questions –
1) Even if she’s your wife, sister, mom or daughter you have no right to boss a girl. She’s born with her identity, let her own hers.
2) Even if her persona is something better than yours accept it, don’t demotivate her.
3) Even if she’s not willing to do what most of women do, let her not do. She is unique – accept her that way.
4) Even if she’s the one who has her own terms and conditions – respect it.
People, I want your participation in this – please share your views and perception on the topic. Please comment below about your opinion.
Shruti Abhishek Shetty